Chapter 1: The Context of Technology and Friendship

In my view, a phone is merely a tool, not worth sacrificing a friendship over. Yet, I've observed that some individuals feel differently. My background in technology has allowed me to collaborate with many tech enthusiasts in large corporate settings, where we affectionately refer to each other as "metalheads." Although I don't indulge in their usual late-night snacks like pizza and soda, I still enjoy engaging in conversations with them, even if I am a passive smoker.

These colleagues are not only great teammates but also friends. They often bring their favorite snacks and toys from franchises like Star Trek and Star Wars to our night shifts. We engage in lively discussions that range from the meaning of life to the latest tech trends. Their favorite number, 42, humorously signifies the universe, as referenced in "Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy."

However, when the conversation shifts to technology, the atmosphere can change dramatically. My approach is more balanced and mature; I appreciate tech without allowing it to dominate my life. As one of the older members in my team, I am often seen as the quiet one—perhaps a relic of the past—yet they connect with me easily.

My early obsession with technology led to various health issues, teaching me that being overly fixated on anything can be detrimental. Now, I manage technology rather than letting it manage me.

The other day, a friend purchased a new iPhone, eager to experience the benefits of 5G. Meanwhile, another colleague, who owns a Samsung phone, frequently extols the virtues of Android. This difference sparked a debate among us, as we all sought the advantages of faster connectivity provided by 5G—an essential for emerging technologies like AI and robotics.

To me, frequently upgrading phones feels wasteful; my upgrades can span years. My colleagues often tease me about my older devices, but I view them as functional tools rather than status symbols.

The conversation took a turn when one friend disparaged the iPhone, calling it "a piece of crap." While such language usually doesn't cause offense, the iPhone owner reacted unusually strongly.

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As the debate escalated, their voices grew louder, and the exchange became heated, culminating in insults. Shockingly, the confrontation led to one friend's phone being knocked to the ground, shattering its screen.

In that moment, I experienced a visceral reaction—my heart raced, and I felt a wave of anxiety wash over me. A brand-new phone, awaited for weeks and costing $1200, lay broken. It was surreal to witness a friendship dissolve over mere brand loyalty.

Chapter 2: The Aftermath of Technology Rivalry

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The silence that followed was telling. They both swore never to speak to each other again, proving how deeply attached people can become to their devices. Some of us remarked, "It's just a phone," but for them, it was a matter of identity and allegiance.

This incident serves as a testament to the psychological impact of technology on relationships. Personally, I regard my phone as simply a tool, and I hope to never reach a point where I would jeopardize a friendship over it. How do you view your attachment to gadgets?

Thank you for reading my not-so-funny account and sharing my insights.