Chapter 1: Understanding the Inner Child

The disheartened and unenthusiastic child within us, often lost and buried deep, may be longing for us to uncover the essence of true goodness. This inner child, once filled with excitement, has perhaps been overshadowed by our experiences and perceptions.

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Our perspective on life shapes how we navigate it. It feels almost predetermined. Our subconscious perceptions guide us in ways that restrict our ability to challenge them.

Similar to trying on clothes in a store fitting room, when surrounded by friends or family, we often start living according to their expectations without even discussing it.

The 'perception' we consider our friend—an insidious, lazy, and invisible enemy—decisively dictates the kind of life we lead. Even when we see acceptance from others, it becomes challenging to shed the lifestyle that clings to us.

Habits, complacency, and a lack of individuality can rob us of our authentic lives, transforming our existence into a mere shadow of what we wish it to be—a life filled with missed opportunities and unrealized dreams. As children, we embarked on a learning journey with bravery and innocence. However, as the toxic effects of societal acceptance infiltrate our lives and our needs grow, they poison our spirits and enthusiasm.

In the absence of unconditional love, we become burdened by the expectations of others, leading to the erosion of our joy and smiles. Thus, we stifle our inner child, maturing into a state devoid of the thrill of discovery. Consequently, life becomes increasingly disheartening, marked by regrets, disappointments, and tears. Our childhood fairy tales, which once promised safety and peace, conclude with an unhappy ending.

My intention is not to lament or complain but to assess our current state, allowing us to remember the vibrant dreams and innocence of our youth. If we diagnose our situation correctly, we might awaken our inner child, which we thought was lost but is merely hiding in a safe corner, waiting for us to reconnect with it. Perhaps we can reclaim the healing power of untainted goodness before it’s too late, devoid of malice or ulterior motives.

From this perspective, childlike kindness is not a facade we present to others, nor should we treat our good deeds as a means to elevate ourselves. Instead, we should express gratitude to those who allow us the opportunity to extend our kindness. They remind us of our pure and innocent selves, awakening our inner child.

That neglected child within, having lost its excitement and hidden away, may be waiting for us to rediscover the true essence of goodness. We alone can chart its course and guide it through acts of unreciprocated kindness. It is crucial to recognize this before it is too late, freeing ourselves from the toxic effects of perceptions and superficial acceptance. Only then can we ease our inner child's unhappiness and savor the true flavor of life before it slips away.

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Chapter 2: The Importance of Kindness

The path to healing our inner child begins with recognizing the power of kindness and reconnecting with our true selves. Let's reflect on how we can nurture our inner child and embrace the joy of living fully.