# The Love-Hate Relationship with Androids: Why I Stick with iPhone
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Chapter 1: My iPhone Affection
I’ve been an iPhone user for nearly ten years, while my fiancée opts for an Android. This leads to a peculiar dynamic in our relationship where I despise messaging her Android device so much that we resort to using Facebook Messenger for texts, images, and attachments.
When she drives and I need to use her phone, it’s a struggle that feels almost painful. The interface is foreign to me, making it challenging to navigate the call app. I find myself wishing the layout was as straightforward as on my iPhone. Ironically, she feels the same way when she uses my device.
From my viewpoint, it baffles me why she wouldn’t just switch to an iPhone. Conversely, she wonders why I can’t embrace an Android.
To manage expenses, I stick with older iPhone models, preferring an iPhone 5 over grappling with an Android. My dislike for Androids, I recognize, stems partly from my own narrow-mindedness. While I see myself as accepting and open to differing opinions—having voted for Bernie Sanders, Hillary Clinton, and Joe Biden—I struggle with my feelings toward Android users.
Although I identify as a Christian, my past beliefs were different, and I’m open to discussing others' negative experiences with religion. I encourage diverse thoughts and actions, except when it comes to the choice of phone.
Androids, to me, are aesthetically unpleasing. The sharp corners of their designs perplex me; I can't fathom why they aren't rounded like the superior iPhone.
Even when I admire a talented writer like Sean Kernan, discovering he uses an Android slightly diminishes my respect for him. He’s still an excellent writer and person, but I can't comprehend how he manages with an Android.
I’m not an Apple marketer or a fervent admirer of the company; I know that some applications function better on Androids. However, if I truly want to be more accepting, perhaps I should consider trying an Android. After all, exposure often breeds familiarity.
Nonetheless, I find it challenging to appreciate Androids. Their keyboards frustrate me, as the smaller letters lead to frequent typos—especially with my larger fingers. The dreaded green messages are another annoyance, as is the time it takes to send images and videos from an iPhone to an Android. Plus, one Android user can ruin the blue messaging experience in a group chat.
To be fair, I’m not completely sold on the iPhone either. I’ve noticed that each iOS update tends to drain my battery more, and my iPhone XR barely lasts a full day without a charge. The pressure to upgrade to newer models, which often feel too similar to their predecessors, is also frustrating. Moreover, some phones have grown so large they barely fit into my pocket.
However, at least I don’t have to deal with a potentially explosive device or search for a frustratingly elusive USB-C charging cable. Each time I encounter a green message, a part of me withers away. While I’m open to exploring new ideas, I’ll never be swayed to own an Android.
In the first video, "iPhone vs Android (The Real Winner)!" the debate over which platform reigns supreme is humorously examined, highlighting the pros and cons of both.
Chapter 2: The Android Experience
The second video, "Switching from iOS to Android - What They Don't Tell You!" dives into the unexpected challenges faced when transitioning from iOS to Android, shedding light on the often-overlooked aspects of making the switch.