The Reality of Narcissism

Dear Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse,

This is a gentle reminder for your midweek reflection: there's a significant amount of misleading information circulating on social media and the internet. I've felt the need to connect with you all after encountering the same misleading meme about narcissists on various platforms.

The meme states:

Can we agree on everything in that meme? Well, not quite.

While the sorrow from our broken hearts is completely valid, it's crucial that we don't let our emotions cloud medical truths. The reality is, everything in that meme might resonate with many survivors, but the very first claim — that "narcissists are not sick" — is fundamentally incorrect.

NARCISSISTS ARE SICK. I encourage you to refer to my previous article discussing recent medical research that supports this assertion.

Certainly, individuals with narcissistic traits can be deceitful and self-serving. They have the power to wreak havoc in your life through manipulation that can be beyond what any kind-hearted person could ever conceive. If you can, I strongly recommend removing yourself from such situations, or at the very least, minimizing your contact with the toxic individual.

As someone who has survived narcissistic abuse, the last thing you want is to let any of that toxicity infiltrate your character and essence. Avoid falling into the trap of narcissistic denial. You are above that. You possess the ability to embrace acceptance as a truly kind, compassionate, and empathetic person.

Acceptance is not synonymous with tolerance. No one here would advocate for enduring narcissistic mind games or any form of abuse.

Acceptance helps us survivors recognize that the issue does not reside with us. However, I firmly believe that we contribute to the problem if we fail to distinguish between fact and opinion.

Medical evidence also sheds light on why narcissists behave as they do.

Consider this: would a psychologically sound individual treat you the way a narcissist does? I highly doubt it.

Their mental health struggles not only impact them but can also inflict lasting harm on their victims.

Survivors, let’s unite by responsibly using social media and the internet.

This approach serves us survivors far more than it does the narcissists.

If you’re reading this, I commend your resilience!

You are not merely a victim of narcissistic abuse; YOU ARE A SURVIVOR.

It’s challenging to acknowledge that I lacked the knowledge to see through the narcissist's deceit. Yet, it’s even more difficult to hold back these experiences, knowing there are other empathetic souls who feel just as lost, betrayed, and shattered as I once did. Let’s foster a safe environment to share our struggles and healing journeys. Please applaud and comment if this article resonated with you, or if you wish to read more of my work, be sure to follow and subscribe for updates so you don’t miss any stories! Trust me, I have a wealth of insights to share regarding surviving NPD abuse!

For now, take care, my friend, and may you be blessed.

DISCLAIMER: I AM NOT A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL. I AM A SURVIVOR OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE WHO ASPIRES TO ASSIST OTHER VICTIMS/SURVIVORS IN THEIR HEALING JOURNEY. I’M HERE IF YOU NEED A LISTENING EAR.

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