Embracing Change: A Journey from Loss to New Beginnings
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Chapter 1: The Beginning of a New Chapter
After experiencing a devastating financial setback, I found myself navigating through one of the toughest years of my life. The journey commenced when I traveled from Toulouse to Athens in January 2021, eager to embrace a Greek winter in the Peloponnese—a region close to my heart.
I had the privilege of residing in Greece longer than the usual 90-day limit thanks to a residency permit granted under the Brexit Withdrawal Agreement. My hope was to find a small apartment to rent long-term, ideally staying until May.
By the end of January, I was fortunate to stay with friends in a stunning home overlooking the sea near Stoupa. That evening, as I received a shocking WhatsApp message, my world turned upside down: the investment firm I had trusted with my savings had collapsed.
Thus began an arduous year characterized by confusion, poor decisions, financial strain, and an overwhelming sense of loss.
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Section 1.1: Finding Solace in Greece
With no immediate plans to return to France, I opted to remain in Greece, where I had two rentals already arranged. My time there offered a brief respite, allowing me to process my situation, though acceptance still eluded me even a year later.
The first rental was a charming off-grid property owned by a couple from the UK, who had also faced financial deceit. Their story resonated with mine, and we quickly bonded over shared experiences.
After a week, I moved to my beloved Nafplio, where Kostas, the owner of my favorite apartment, had become a close friend. This stay allowed me to gather my thoughts, handle necessary calls, and inform my family of my predicament, knowing they would spread the news before my return.
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Section 1.2: The Emotional Turmoil of Return
Returning to France three months earlier than anticipated was bittersweet. Arriving back at Blagnac, I was greeted by familiar faces from the long-stay car park, who welcomed me warmly despite my tears. They offered a place to stay if needed, showcasing the kindness of strangers.
Upon arriving home, I discovered my neighbors had prepared the wood burner for my arrival, a small but meaningful gesture. Unfortunately, my landlady had turned on energy-consuming heaters, leading to an unwelcome surprise in my utility bill.
Despite this, I managed a minimal grocery run and prepared a simple meal, shedding tears as I reflected on leaving my cherished home. The next two and a half months became an emotional challenge as I prepared to move, often overwhelmed by sadness and anger.
Thankfully, I stumbled upon a subscription to Gaia.com, which provided enriching content about ancient civilizations. This, along with unwavering support from friends and family, helped me stay grounded during the chaos.
Chapter 2: The Search for Stability
As I contemplated my next steps, I learned from a social worker that my voluntary termination of the rental contract might limit my housing assistance. Friends offered financial support, and I even received an offer to use a cottage in Wales, highlighting the generosity of those around me.
Slowly, I formulated a plan. My previous trips to Greece had made me eligible for residency, and I decided to take the plunge and move there permanently. I would finally be able to immerse myself in the language and culture I adored.
However, downsizing my belongings proved to be a painful process. The open house I held was exhausting, as I dealt with strangers negotiating over my possessions. Fortunately, supportive friends helped with the move, and I found temporary accommodations to ease the transition.
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As I finally settled into a new routine in Greece, I faced various challenges, including fierce competition for rental properties. I learned that online reservations didn’t guarantee a place, and I faced many disappointments along the way.
However, a friend’s connection led me to a small house available for a reasonable rent, offering me a chance to create a new home. I embraced the uncertainty of my nomadic lifestyle, realizing that change no longer frightened me.
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Retired writer-artist-potter living on a Greek island after 25 years in France. A nomad at heart, I welcome opportunities for editing and writing work.